When you are in a relationship with a guy it’s very normal to share cute messages and exchange compliments that reveal how you genuinely feel about one another.
The words you say and the messages you send can be flooded with real affection for each other. They will also drop hints about how you both feel the relationship is progressing and more shed light on real feelings and emotions.
But what does it mean when a guy says you melt his heart?
Is this a compliment? A sign of real affection? Or just a play on words that best describes how he is feeling about you at that moment?
What Does It Mean When A Guy Says You Melt My Heart?
When a guy says you melt my heart. It’s a sign he’s beginning to have strong feelings of affection, love, and emotion for you or something you are doing. He might find your actions cute, your words endearing, and feel like he’s developing a strong bond or connection with you.
Some people believe that it’s also an indication that a guy might be crazy for you, and that he’s developing a crush or falling for you. But the words “You melt my heart” can have multiple meanings and will depend entirely on a guy’s reasons for saying this to you.
Typically when a guy says “You melt my heart” with any major conviction or like he means it. It’s only ever a good thing providing you want to be complimented or are happy to receive this kind of extra attention from him.
Many guys also describe the meaning of the words “You melt my heart” as being strong feelings or emotions translated into words. It’s the best way to describe the feeling of liking or loving someone intensely, or so much that it gives him goosebumps and sends shivers down his spine.
Why Do Guys Say You Melt My Heart?
The reason why many guys say “You melt my heart” is that it’s often a reaction to something you are saying or doing while he’s around. It could be his way of showing he’s catching feelings for you or the easiest way to describe the real emotions he’s feeling in that moment. It’s a positive message from him aimed at you.
When you are doing something he finds cute, or saying something nice about him and giving him compliments. It’s a response you are likely to hear from any guy that appreciates either your actions or your kind words.
For many guys saying “You melt my heart” does not come easy also. Just like saying “I have feelings for you” or “I love you” it can take a lot for some guys to open up in this way and reveal their true feelings.
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It’s also true that some guys will say it to you without you needing to do or say anything. It can be a reaction or response to your appearance, you looking good, or wearing something he finds seriously appealing.
There are also many ways a guy can say “You melt my heart” with the same or similar meaning. He might say something like…
- You melt me
- You make me melt
- Your words melt my heart
- The way you look melts my heart
- You really make my heart flutter
- Hearing from you makes my heart melt
They all hold similar meanings and are intended by him to convey positive emotions or feelings toward you.
How Do You Melt A Man’s Heart?
When you want to melt a man’s heart there are many things you can do to make him go gushy and weak at the knees. First are foremost it’s about being yourself, and also being receptive to the kinds of things your man finds cute and endearing about you.
To melt a man’s heart you really have to understand what he likes and doesn’t like. You don’t have to guess perfectly, you just need to do more of the things he’s known to react positively to.
If he loves seeing you smile or you being happy and playful with him. Try your best to continue these habits and doing more of the things he likes. It is the sure-fire way to make his heart melt.
You can also melt and mans heart by…
- Being yourself
- Speaking with your eyes
- Embracing your awkwardness
- Telling him jokes and laughing together
- Spicing up your wardrobe
- Realizing that being shy is OK
- Focusing on flirting
- Using your body language
- Sending him signals
- Being confident and independent
There are countless ways you can melt a man’s heart by doing things that pull at his heartstrings. First and foremost, focus on being yourself. Do the things that come naturally to you, and try to find a way to make your man go weak at the knees.
What Do You Say To A Guy To Melt His Heart?
To make a guy’s heart melt using your words. You need to understand him and make him feel extra special. Use your words to express love, pay him compliments, and show that you support him in everything that he does.
When trying to make his heart melt you can…
Express Your Feelings About Him
Share your real feelings about him to make him feel special. Let him know that he is the only guy you want using your words, and explain exactly why you feel love and affection for him.
Shower Him With Compliments
Pay him compliments at every opportunity. Tell him what you like about the things he does, how he looks, or how he treats you. Guys absolutely love compliments and knowing that their efforts are appreciated. So make his heart melt by paying him loving compliments.
Support Him With Your Words
To make a guy’s heart melt you can show him that you’ve got his back in every aspect of his life. Let him know you are there for him and make him feel loved and appreciated. Be his number #1 cheerleader in life.
Call Him By His Pet Name
Calling him by an endearment or pet name that is specific to him is a sure-fire way to melt his heart. He knows that only you will be calling him by that special name and you’re singling him out for special attention.
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There are countless ways to say things to a guy to melt his heart. First and foremost, you should focus on what the guy finds cute or endearing. If he loves compliments and receiving kind words from you filled with love and affection. Use that to your advantage when trying to make his heart melt.
Why Don’t Some Guys Say You Melt My Heart?
For some guys saying “You melt my heart” is just not in their relationship vocabulary. They might have a different way of expressing their feelings using words and choose to express emotions using other messages or sayings with very similar meanings.
While for the most part, it’s not uncommon for a guy never to say you melt his heart. It’s normally just because he’s not familiar with using those words to express his feelings for you.
He might find other ways to tell you how he feels and decide to choose words he thinks will have a bigger impact and be more meaningful to you.
Don’t worry if a guy doesn’t say “You melt my heart” in a relationship. This does not mean he does not hold the same or similar feelings about you. It may just mean he’s not entirely familiar with expressing his feelings using those exact words. Many other words or sayings can be just as powerful and hold the same meaning.
What Does It Mean When Someone Says You Melt Me?
When someone says “You melt me” it has a very similar meaning to saying “You melt my heart”. It’s often their way of saying to you that they like you a lot and are beginning to garner feelings for you, what you are saying or doing.
It’s usually only ever used in a positive context to describe how one person feels for someone else. It may hold fewer intentions for love than saying “You melt my heart” but is considered affectionate slang that holds a very similar meaning when it comes to relationships and love.
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An example would be you calling your partner on the phone and paying them lots of compliments. They might reply with “I love hearing your voice, you melt me”.
It’s their way of showing they’re being perceptive to the things you are doing or saying to them. It’s intended to show real affection, love, or gratitude and holds an almost identical meaning to the words “You melt my heart”.