Knowing if your boyfriend is truly in love with you might seem on the face of things to be pretty obvious based on their actions, what they say, or how affectionate he is towards you.
He might already tick all the boxes for the things you would expect from a great boyfriend, or perhaps even a future partner. But how do you know in his heart of hearts that he is really in love with you, and not just in love with the idea of being in a stable relationship?
When you get told these three magical words “I Love You” this should only ever be a good thing right? 🤔
However, we live under the assumption that everyone understands love to its core while forgetting how complex love can truly be.
It’s not always just about what you say, or how you say it. A lot of the time it’s based mostly on your actions and how that love manifests itself towards you from your boyfriend.
It’s easy to see why many people become skeptical when their boyfriend tells them that he loves them. If you have any doubt about his true feelings rolling around in your head, you can start to question his feelings, thoughts, and intentions towards you.
This is why it’s so important not just to focus on the things your boyfriend is saying to you. Instead try to view his love as a broader picture based on his words, actions, and other ways this love manifests itself onto you.
Take note of some of these signs below that your boyfriend is truly in love with you. You might be surprised to learn you already have the perfect boyfriend that you always dreamed about.
1. He Always Compliments You For The Little Things You Do For Him.
Boyfriends that actively take a mental note of all of the little things that you do for him are a great sign. If he pays attention to the little details in your relationship and openly compliments you for these. Its a sign he is combining these with many other reasons he fell in love with you.
It’s sometimes the small things that play a huge role in the bigger picture of your relationship together. And he knows that!
2. He Does Everything In His Power To Stop You Feeling Worried.
Whether you are worried about the relationship or stressed about the goings-on in daily life. A boyfriend that can let you know openly where he stands in the relationship with you, or actively tries to make you feel less stressed and happier each day is surely a positive sign.
If he never leaves you second-guessing him, and wants you to feel secure and safe in the relationship. This is the sign of a great boyfriend that loves you deeply.
3. He Can Talk To You With His Eyes.
If he talks to you with his eyes and you know just how he’s feeling or what he is thinking this is surely a great sign. You have developed an emotional bond or loving connection that can’t be touched!
At this point, you can simply see his love for you written across his face. There is no second-guessing here, as he will know just from a “look” or a “glance” just what you need.
4. He Never Fails To Dedicate A Lot Of Time Just For You.
Time is a resource that nearly everyone in the world wishes they had more of to do the things they love or enjoy doing. If he is more than happy to dedicate a huge part of his week just for you, or makes time to spend time with you at the drop of a hat. This shows you are a priority for him in his life.
We always prioritize and make time for the things we love the most.
5. You Never Feel Unloved, Not For A Second.
He would never make you feel like you don’t matter, not for a second.
If he’s always keeping you in the loop with his thoughts or feelings towards you and is never a closed book. You know for a fact he’s doing everything in his power to keep you feeling loved and sees you as a huge part of his life.
6. He Absolutely Loves Telling You About His Day And Hearing About Yours.
Boyfriends that love hearing about your day, and can’t contain themselves to tell you about theirs are surefire sign that you matter most. He values what you have to say the most, and also cares about your opinions and thoughts on his day.
When he wants nothing more than to really listen about how your day has gone, and play a big part as someone you can confide in. It shows he’s a boyfriend that really cares and likely loves you to the fullest extent.
7. Even When He’s Sad Or Angry, He Won’t Close You Off In His Life.
If he ever shows signs of being sad, or perhaps he’s even angry about something you might have done. If he does his best not to close you out, and keep you inside the inner-circle of his thoughts and feelings it really is a sign of true love.
For most guys, it would be simple to lock you out of his emotions or become a closed book that leaves you second-guessing every word or action he makes. But if he truly loves you, no matter how hard it may appear he will still make the effort to stop you feeling worried or anxious about him or the relationship.
8. He Want’s You To Be A Big Part Of His Social Circle.
Boyfriends that want nothing more than to see you integrated as part of their social group by introducing you to friends, family, or giving you access to other parts of their personal life are an awesome sign.
It shows he really wants you to play a leading role in his life, and a lot of this is put simply down to his growing love for you!
He wants you to experience the same things as him, and get to know his friends or family as he is more than proud to be with you. He love’s every moment of it!
9. He’s Always Talking About His Future Plans With You Firmly In The Picture.
Knowing what your future plans might be can be a difficult task for most of us, while in a relationship. We might not even know what we are doing tomorrow together, or in a month’s time, let alone a year down the line.
If he’s often thinking up things for you to do months or even years in advance, this is an excellent sign that he sees his long term future with you and only you firmly in the picture.
Loving someone truly and deeply makes you consider all the possible things you can do and experience as a couple together, and there is no better person to choose to do these things with than the person you love the most.
